Learn to finish stages in your life...and keep on going.
Situations in our life change more and more rapidly and often, is difficult for us to adapt ourself to the changes that take place in our lives.
If you are like those peoples who keep feeling bad for what you use to have,but is not there anymore,you need to learn how to conclude stages in your life to go forward.
- Do not live your present thinking about your past..nope! this is a big mistake.
- Focus in your current situation and use your life to improve the moment you live today.
- Take the initiative to improve small aspects of your present situation.
- Do not paralyze yourself hoping that someone or something will make the past return to you.
If you want to escape (even for a few minutes) from your present, think about the future.
Ask Yourself:
How would I like that how to improving such and such situation?: What can I do today so this "future" desire materializes?:I have any experience which back me up to realize this desire?: Towards what direction should I direct my steps to realize this desire?
Never look at the past with nostalgic,even think it will return.
Looks at the situations like a nice looking pair of shoes that you try it and is too small and that only would make you suffer if you insisting on trying again."New steps needs a new shoes".
Important
Write the best desires and wishes for you and your loving ones for the next twelve months and make the promise yourself to begin to work today on them to make it happen at least some of them.
Lives day by day, always keeping at sight the place to where you want to be with your "today" actions.
The future is a very important time for your conscience.
If you imagine a promissory future and devote yourself to work for it, you will direct your present without nostalgias for the lost situations.
Until Next Time.
Manny