The topic of Separation or Divorce is something of which the offices of Family Counselors are fill every day. Husbands who leave his family under any situation,and womens who demand the return of his partners are the constant in these situations.If you are to the point of taking this important decision here I give you some ideas of what you to do in these cases.
Take a few days. - If you feel that the weariness of the relation is affecting you, is time to talk with your wife and tell her that you need a few days alone, perhaps a trip out of the city with a good friend won't be a bad idea,just try to be clear and let her know that this is not Personal, and this is not a topic of separation, You only need space. Clarify this one,that you will not do this every month, but one or two times per year.
Change of activity. - Another topic to take in consideration before you leave everything,is analyze if all this is not a product of the weariness and monotony of the relation, if search like that is a change of activity or routine with your partner and you'll see how that will liberate some pressure in your relation-Guys There is an infinite possible things that you and your partner can do together,...just use your imagination.
Communication.-A lot of times if not most of the time 'this process",they are nothing more that a very serious "lack of communication" in your relationship,If you are already at this point,is time to start extend your bridges,so you can make a better communication.Do not expect immediate results...Take in consideration that a couple to start "learn" how to communicate with each other has win half of battle already.
Therapeutic Separation. - This one may be the reason of another and separate post, but here I will say that sometimes it is necessary this type of separation especially when there exist facts of reiterated infidelity or domestic violence, in these cases the professional help is Mandatory!!!.
Well the idea of this blog is nothing less that you can look out for many different resources before a definitive separation,and no doubt about it,there are many choices out there,before you do something that you may regret later.
Good luck folks...and until next time.
Manny